Interview from his Bro

Note this post has not been reviewed / edited by my editor.. so Belle no red penning it ;)


1. What does being a Dominant mean to you and what aspects of being a Dominant most appeal to you?

For me being a Dominant is about accepting the responsiblity of the control that Belle has given me. Until Belle and I found each other, I really thought that total and absolute control was what I was seeking, since then its more about working with controls I have and being the final say in that area. While total control over someone life is a great idea its not practical for us. On many occasions Belle has offered a suggestions that have changed what I thought my final thought.

One of the best things about being a Dominant is the aftercare. *grins at Belle*

2. If you could celebrate only one holiday for the rest of your life, which holiday would it be, where would it take place, who would be included (if anyone), what would you want to happen on that holiday, and of course WHY?

Wow, so many choices my first thought was Christmas, then I swung over to Fourth of July, then to Thanksgiving... so lets touch each one in turn

Fourth of July - great holiday of the summer, I also very patreotic and truly enjoy the celebatrion of our country founding and indepenance

Christmas - its the season of giving, of joy, of faith.

Thanksgiving - I love the idea of giving thanks and family coming togather. I love hosting Thanksgiving at my house, but as long as family is togather then im good, my family (that includes Belle and Bro), we gather someones house, dinner would be prepared, hang out have fun, being its normally a 4 day weekend it would be 4 days of holiday time. As for why, its a great time to come togather and be with family and enjoy each other and reflect on what we have to be thankful for.

3. You enjoy sex, so what is your favorite sexual act, what aspect of sex appeal to you the most, and if it was taken away from you what will you miss the most and what would you do instead?

Tough choice, as much as I like sex I dont know if I have a favorite, but if i must choose, I would say intercourse, I love taking care of my partner, giving her pleasure and helping her reach climax which is what sex is all about, if i could no longer have sex (does this include masterbation) the enjoy of watching my partner, reach that peak and be pushed over as they orgasm. if i couldnt do that I guess I would go back to gaming on the PS3, Wii or PC. (oh and play paintball *ducks*)

4. As a natural Dominant, what makes a good submissive. Now put yourself in the role of the submissive, what aspects of being a good submissive would be the most challenging for you and why?

Good question. First what makes a good submissive for me may not make a good submissive for someone else (if you look the S word post you will see my comment Belle and I work well for each other) So what makes a good submissive for me, in a single word Belle. I am not looking for someone to give me total control over there life, while its nice for a bit of time, its not sometime that works day to day. I have someone in Belle who keeps me on my toes but allows me explore my Dominant side. I am a firm believer in you can not understand what a sub is feeling if you have not experienced it yourself, no I am not submissive by any means but if I am to understand what Belle is feeling, thinking or experiencing then at times i have to put myself in that place and that is a big challenge for me.


5. After you have left this world, what do you want people to remember the most about you?

Hopefully when I move on from this world, people remember / say that I was the person they knew they could count on to be there for them no matter what, that he went out going at full speed not looking back or regretting.